Sunday, November 18, 2018

30 habits to break before 30

Currently in a middle of a crisis at work. No worries, there were no explosions, no deaths. No human casualties, just profit (and scorecard) casualties. 

But it's also a good time to reflect on myself, and my working habits, and me in general. 


Shan't go into details - as I just decided to post this while taking a break from work. However, came across this Business Insider article (I think it might be "divine intervention), and thought, why not do a tracking of this for myself?

Habit to Break
Current Status
Living for the weekends.
[In progress]
Supporting fast fashion.
[CLEARED] Nope, I don’t like to support fast fashion. On the contrary, I think I don’t have enough clothes :P
Thinking social smoking is ‘OK.’
[CLEARED] Nope, don’t smoke.
Clinging on to friendships that have run their course.
[In progress] First I need to see which friendships have “run their course”
Not having a bed time.
[In progress] Now my bed time is defined by how tired I feel, not defined by a habit.
Thinking that you can rely on your metabolism to keep weight off.
[In progress] So guilty of this…. Right now my metabolism is still in good shape.
Drinking cheap wine.
[CLEARED] I think I’m choosy enough for the alcohol I drink, and I drink with friends who know their alcohol (:
Taking special moments with friends for granted.
[In progress] Trying my best. But not sure if I’ve achieved what this statement entails
Compromising on what you deserve in a relationship.
[In progress] What do I deserve?
Doing things because you think you ‘should.’
[In progress] Technically I’m never forced to do things. But then again, how do I discern between “should” and “want”?
Putting your physical health before your mental health.
[CLEARED] I think I’m ok with this. I’m ok with all the physical health habits that I’ve been putting myself through.
Fad diets.
[CLEARED] What are fad diets?
Not collecting membership points and air miles.
[In progress] Yup, the uncle in me is doing it. Haven’t reached the final goal, but certainly on the path.
Spending time with people who make you feel insignificant.
[In progress] So far have been blessed with friends who do not do this to me (:
Buying non-eco friendly cleaning products.
[CLEARED] Can I disqualify this? :P
Cancelling plans at the last minute.
[In progress] Yup, word.
Running out of money at the end of the month.
[CLEARED] Privileged enough to not have to meet this issue. Guess that’s the benefit of living with working parents.
Putting off difficult conversations.
[In progress] Yup, more word.
Kidding yourself about things that are important.
[In progress] Yup, even more word
Barely drinking any water.
[CLEARED] On the contrary, I drink enough water to go toilet more often than necessary.
Staying out all night on a regular basis…
[In progress] Well, I stay out all night for OT. And I do stay out for drinks now regularly.. maybe once a week? But that should be fine I hope.
…Then wasting entire days hungover.
[CLEARED] Got hungover once. But that’s all. More of wasting entire days to Dota/Youtube/Sleep. But I think I have managed this.
Midnight McDonald’s stops.
[CLEARED] Same as the previous ones. I do this occasionally – now still young so can!
Not looking after your teeth.
[In progress] This reminds me I’m supposed to go for a dental checkup since 6 months ago.
Not wearing sunscreen.
[CLEARED] Got natural sunscreen – melanin.
Constantly worrying about what people think.
[In progress] Oh man… also constantly worrying what people feel.
Not having a long-term plan.
[In progress] Yup!
Not sending back unwanted online purchases.
[In progress] I don’t really shop online. But I’ll include this as my version: not unnecessarily buying things.
Trying to store all important dates and appointments in your head.
[In progress] Well, this is the cause of this shit.
Buying a coffee each morning.
[CLEARED] Never needed. Lucky. Let’s hope it stays this way.