Remember your post of revelations?
I think I need to add another point there. It surprises me to realise I missed that out. I will also update that post.
- People have their own lives. So entertain yourself. Including chatting.
Don't expect others to worry or think about your plights and problems. Acting pity or displaying angst does correlate to increased attention, but it is not a direct relation - it is not a cause and effect. Having people to fret over you and show concern over you can give you loads of endorphins and is addictive, but make sure it does not lead to dependency. So whatever you have in your life, don't bother to announce it to the world and expect a reply.
I realise I really like people to chat with me, and I like to chat with others. But I think this has become a hindrance and stumbling block for me...
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